So I was talking to this girl for a few weeks and actually was starting to like her for some reason. I say for some reason because we basically have nothing in common. Anyway, the whole time we’re talking and hanging out I can’t get a good read on if she’s into me or not and even when she hung out with me she didn’t give off a vibe either way. Which lead me to two conclusions: she doesn’t like me and I should stop wasting my time or she is really uncomfortable and shy with other people and maybe in time she wouldn’t be like that.
Because of my hoping for the latter I persisted to try and make it work.
I asked her straight up if she liked me and told her I liked her and didn’t want to waste my time if she wasn’t into me. She said she thought she liked me but it takes her time to figure it out so I decided to keep talking to her. Maybe a mistake right there but that’s debatable I suppose.
Next thing she doesn’t reply to my texts when we’re supposed to hang out and I decided I was done with the situation and wasn’t gonna talk to her anymore.
Cut to a few days later I find out she started dating a buddy of mine from my old job. Of course this stings a little bit but after a few days I’m back to normal and actually feeling good.
Now a few days ago the girl and her new bf break up and she slowly tries to befriend me again. Starts with a like on my instagram and then she sends me a random snapchat. Then she invites me to a kickback this weekend and proceeds to send me the address when I ask where.
It’s so fucking ridiculous. What makes you think you can just say fuck my feelings and then as soon as your fling doesn’t work out hit me back up? And why not just tell me you weren’t into me as soon as you felt it?
People’s inability to communicate nowadays annoys the shit out of me.
I wish people told the truth more often and people (myself included) also had thicker skin to take the uncomfortable truths and learn from them.